What a stunner to learn that creativity can achieve peace.

Always make sure that the other side of an issue completely understands the kindness part of your position. If it is genuine, so will it be beneficial to your counter part. And slways contribute generous amounts of time and attention about a difference of opinion when considering the solutions of another.

—co-artist heartsoulist

Whenever faced with insufficient meaningful information to solve a problem, do not cave in to an obviously bad plan. Instead, try writing two summaries of what has been suggested so far — one using the most negative verbiage and style you can imagine and the other which recommends the same corrections in the most positive stylistic qualities you have ever heard.

—co-artist heartsoulist

Whenever all of the seemingly possible solutions to what really could be an insurmountable challenge fail, don’t forget that the situation was extra difficult from the start. Therefore, accept the progress made so far, pick yourselves up, dust each other off and get some outside help.

—co-artist heartsoulist

Inevitably, in an excruciatingly painful disagreement, he or she who travels the higher kinder road will be happier throughout the process and with the agreement that is made.

—co-artist heartsoulist

Always be willing to revisit yesterday's solution so to allow for review and to make sure that both sides get equal time. Never let  impatience morph into anger for show, Such a tactic is transparent enough to suffer everyone into ongoing avoidable meanness.

—co-artist heartsoulist

Whenever one side learns from the other side, the recipient should make it known in order to encourage, in kind, more productivity of the same ilk.

—co-artist heartsoulist